Yes, I know this is biggie and you probably don’t want to hear it but I’ll address it anyways. If you are not interested with this then just get off the page, read other articles or just go to other websites.
Good! Now you have chosen to read this article then you must be interested. Now I’m going to explain it to you in a moment why it is very dangerous to visit a dating site when you’ve just broke up in a relationship.
First of all you have to understand that sating sites are just for socialization. Now I’m not saying you can’t get the love of life there but 99% of people who go there are jus socializing, they just want to make friends or just chat to pass some time.
Most of those people are shy and can’t stand approaching or getting approach by others on social gathering (offline of course).
You will find a lot of junks over there; some men act as women and vise verse just to play with you.
You will find those who put wrong photos without forgetting those who lie about their real age including undercover law enforcement officer.
So you don’t want to hang out there during break up, this is because at this time you…(when you are in deep distress) you need more inner strength than just socializing with people who put fake photos.
It is better to spend this time learning new things and do creative things that two years later you will be glad that you did. That is more important to you than finding a quick fix from dating sites.
You can easily replace your ex with someone else but you wont be able to learn why you break up in the first place. You will end up breaking up with your online friend sooner than you can imagine… you will find someone to fix that and you will be in a circle of fixing the void which you don’t even know where it was originated. You will be chasing the wind, which you can’t touch and feel.
If you are intelligent enough you will realize the point I want to make then you will know this is not the time to run around chicken with head cut off.
This is the time to get in touch with your inner self to get deep down in yourself to learn what’s important in your life. You need to ask yourself how important it is to have a partner on your side and I don’t mean the lame ideas like just to have fun but what does fun mean to you.
When you see time asking yourself these deep questions you will realize you are more than a body with brain that can think.
You have to realize that during break up your body is charged with high energy ( (usually a negative one) you job is it use this energy by converting it to something productive to get in touch with your inner feelings. I’m talking about using this energy to know your strength, weakness, your insecurity your desires etc.
Once you’ve learned all that’s important to you…then and only then you can start a new relationship even at the dating site if you think that the easy way.
This is important because when you learn who you are (at a deeper level) it wont affect you when someone disagrees with you or try to manipulate in a relationship because you know whom you are.
Forget Your Ex Course will help you to understand yourself at the deeper level so that you can get over the pain quickly after break up..
You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..