I read somewhere that, “if it’s not broken don’t fix” but what if you need to heal your own heart… the one that is hurting right now. What can you do if you just broke up and have no clue of what steps to take in order to fix it.
There are many ways to fix a broken heart; one way is to let nature take control by waiting for a specific time to heal slowly. This is a primitive way of thinking. If you use a microwave oven to warm your food up instead of regular oven then… why… you want to wait in pain to heal slowly?.
This is where most of masses do. They suffer for months.
This is the most painful experience to experiment … waiting for any given time is a passive way of living. I’m talking about the kind of life where you wait for things to happen without you taking any action. This is not recommended for good people like you.
Online forum is another way to learn how to fix a broken heart, you asked others who have or had the same experience and they share with you how they overcome their situation. The problem with this approach is that, people who participate on these forums are not really helping but they just explain how bad their ex treated them … hoping that their story will make you feel better because … theirs (experience) is worse.
You will end up feeling hopeless because you will be implanted with (what!) … yet another worse experience.
Some people decide to go to a therapist… and spend their hard earned $$$…to fix their broken heart. This method could be the best but it cost both time and money to find a good therapist. Most of…(them)… charge a client per session, and it usually take more than three sessions to recover.
If you don’t have… (Much)…money you will end up being broke but that is not the end of the story you wont be able to do these sessions by yourself, you have to have a therapist and the appropriate place and time to do that.
Not the best advice
So, what do others do…well…they decide to talk to their friends about their feelings, this is good as you will build an emotional bond with your friends…but…your friends…will…get tired with you, for keep crying about your ex for few months.
This…technology…is based on how the human mind works, basically you change the way you feel about yourself by changing your thought pattern about your ex which will produce good feelings and happiness. The techniques can be used anywhere without the need of a professional..
You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..