It is important to know what to do (or at least to have an idea) in any stage of your life. You don’t have to know all the answers but you definitely you have to know where to find them.
Now before we get in to the meaty stuff, let me explain why it is important to ask yourself these questions.
When you ask yourself a question your mind go to work to find the answer, it never stop working until it gets the answer. Haven’t you trying to remember something but when you tried to think about it nothing happen but out of a blue you just happen to remember exactly whet you were looking for.
What Can I Learn From This?
You have to forget the fact that you are not in relationship… all the pain and everything that make you feel miserable.
What can I learn from this break up question makes you realized there is some good reason for you to break up. What are the reasons? That depend on you, they are different for every one.
To some it could never trust anyone or never let anyone take you for granted, Heck it could be anything. Now the important of this question is that it forces your mind to work harder by digging deep down to get the answers. You will learn what things to focus on in life.
The Second Question Is What Is My Goal In Life?
I’ve seen many times that people after break up they go back to school, start a business, write a book and start a great new relationship. What is that? Because they spend sometime analyzing what’s important in their life. They find things that they really want to accomplish in life.
When you are in a relationship it is sometime hard to realize that you have your own desire and goals in their life but during break up you have a chance to go deep down inside you to get the answer, this can easily utilized because at the time you emotions are charged up.
Just think about it emotions make people make love, buy thinks they don’t want, make a grownup cry like a baby etc. Don’t you think that this is the best opportunity for you to find what are your goals in your life since your emotions are so high?The last question you should ask is,
Who Am I?
A very important question to ask yourself. Most successful people in history asked themselves this question many times. So are you the car you drive, the house you own, the clothes you wear, the music you listen etc. who are you? It is what your parent used to tell you when you were little or is it what your friends think you are?
If you have never asked yourself this question then this is the time to do it. This will help you to define your identity on your own terms not what your ex used to define you. Once you have defined your identity you will find life become much easier during break up. You won’t need any approval from another anymore.
If for some reason you lose everything you posses your identity will still be the same because nothing can take the away from you.
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You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..