I want you to imagine a child who is with her mom and she happens to be very stubborn. This kid jumps here and there trying to get some attention. Her mom tells her to be careful but this child thinks she knows everything and continues to jump even higher.
All the sudden she fall and hit her head on the ground… really hard. She cries for about 15 minutes then she forget, she start to play again but this time with some discipline.
That might seem like I’m exaggerating with what I’m about to say but children can’t make good decision as most adults do. This brings us to reason number one…
1.You Will Always Get Hurt.
You have proven yourself that your ex made you feel bad to the point that you are sitting at your computer desk reading at this article, just to find some information about whether going back to your ex .
Don’t you have other things to do?
Don’t you think there is a greater probability that you will get hurt again? Since you have been hurt once it is more likely that you will get hurt the second time or even more.
Just remember when your ex hurt you, the time he or she said its over. Then fast-forward it a year later when you get hurt the second time. Are you really ready to take that chance?
2.It Makes You Feel Needy.
When you want something back you make that thing more important than you. This is what I mean, have you ever wonder why diamonds are expensive? Just think about that tiny little shiny rock which cost so much and people burn their wealth just to hang it on their neck. Why do people do this? Because they perceive it worthy and important.
When you want to get back to your ex who mistreated you, you make yourself unworthy and you bet your life on mercy of someone else. You basically put all your odds on that person. Your future depends on his or her decision. When he say YES you feel LUCKY when he says NO you are doomed to failure. Does that make sense?
My friend, that is not what you want, if you just change the way you feel about your ex you will find that you don’t need to go back. Think about it, life is full of choices and there are many good people out there who want to meet you. Remember! You broke up for reason. It didn’t happen over night. That passion died long time ago, you just didn’t realized or you ignored it. The truth is you need to move on.
3.You Will Be Wounded.
Since you are the one who want to go back (because you are reading this article), your ex have more power than you, he (or she) can manipulate you psychologically. Here is what I mean…
You want to go back to him (or her) because you lack something (probably you feel lonely or haven’t gone on date for a while). You have that void in you, the void that the one you seek refuge (your ex) was the one who created it. In other words you will go back to be wounded again, just think about it.
I can hear you saying,” We can work things out” that is a surefire way of getting hurt even more. There is this FACT that you don’t want to admit that your relationship didn’t work out and deep down you know it. This is true but your loneliness makes you thinks things will be different. Don’t fool yourself.
Instead find some ways to move on and you will be surprised that there are good people who are ready to start a fresh with you.
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