Have you ever wonder why we have signs on the street, showing the street numbers on every corner? Have you ever wonder why we use syllabus in school, have you ever wonder why we have maps. It all comes to one thing, and that is direction.
You know, in math there is a method of predicting the outcome of specific pattern in what is called linear extrapolation. In his method you can easily predict where the next event will occur. In weather forecasting, computers are programmed to use this method to predict the weather for the whole week or month.
You need to know where you are right now in order to move on from a bad relationship.
How do you feel at this moment, if you are not happy chances are you will feel the same unless you change your interpretations.
Can I ask you this question? Before you broke up with your ex, did you have any of these… face, heart, eyes, nose, nails and a smile?. Do you still have these things? then why you are not feeling happy? It all comes to one thing …
You focus on bad side of you, you focus on lack, and you spend too much energy of not having than what you have. That is focusing on the wrong direction, you will eventually see nothing good about yourself, only the worse. In order to move on from a bad relationship you have to… change…your focus
What things that really makes you happy in life? Do have anything that makes you feel special or important?. You see, we all feel down sometimes but you have to learn to change your focus on something creative. I always ask myself how can I use this situation to make myself better, what can I learn from this.
When you feel down because of breakup you have to take it as an opportunity to change your life. Break up is one of the most powerful way to learn about yourself, your ability to handle your emotions, power and strength. Break up is an emotional thing which is powerful, it can pull you down or raise you up. Once you learn that, you can easily move on from bad relationship.
Take a look at this
I want you to take a coin and observe it for a minute, you will see two sides… a head and a tail. The coin is the same but its two sides are different, if two people are on the opposite site they will see two different sides of the same coin, they are both right depending on what side they are looking at.
Break up, charges up emotionally at a very high level (humanly possible) you become aware of who you are more than any other time in your life. You become aware of every little detail about yourself. You tend to notice little things, about yourself, that used to be insignificant.
Why That happens?
Emotion are just E-Motion… energy in motion… they are not static they are not even real, they are just like a coin, it can be tail or head. The idea here is to take the advantage of these highly charged emotions and move on a bad relationship.
When you are highly charged emotionally you become aware of the things you don’t normally recognize.
This is THE reason why SEX is so intense when reaching …
A little touch will explode a powerful… (what)… orgasm. Same way, during break up, your emotion are so charged that a small incident can make you cry or feel unhappy the whole day.
Like I said earlier it all depends on what side you are looking at, you can take advantage of this highly charged emotional state to build you up as a person, to learn something new, to do the things you’ve always wanted or you can let it destroy you for good.
It will mean a lot to you now because you are more sensitive. You can learn tricks that will help you to move on a bad relationship very quickly because your mind is in to details.
During this transition period (break up), you become aware of your feelings more than any other time, you can use this time to learn more about what makes you really unhappy. You can list down what pisses you off and do the opposite.
Use the time to remember the good times you had in the past and learn what makes you tickle. You can use the time to read about inspirational books that will arouse, yet another powerful emotions, you never thought you have. You will learn about things you are capable of and those you are not. The trick is to write down those things that inspire you. It will be an explosion.
Forget Your Ex course shows you step by step how to move on a bad relationship by showing you how to use your powerful emotions to change your life to become a better person, what you are intended to be..
You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..