It is also very incredible how we see things, what we see is just an image of a reflected light, it is… not…a real object. Like when you see a building on the street, it is not the real building that you see but it is the image that has been interpreted in your brain.
You interpret first then you see.
Just like magic, the things we see are not real, the things we experience are not real either, they are just interpretation. A colored blind person is right when he says a red light on the street is green, because that is his perception, it is how his brain interpret the truth about the color of the red light.
One thing can have different interpretations; your experience can have different interpretations too. Two people can have two different interpretation of the same book they read two weeks ago…of course… this depends on a number of reasons including how they are wired in their brain but no matter what happens, there are tricks to change the interpretations to experience what you want.
The first thing to deal with being dumped is to change the way you interpret your experience. You can cry all day or you can find a way to deal with it. It is all up to you.
You see, we interpret images first before we actually see the object, in other word it is not what comes to us that is important but how we interpret it.
The way you feel right now is the result of how you interpret your break up experience.
If you want to deal with being dumped, you…MUST…. (sorry for yelling at you) change your interpretation about your ex. You can do this buy neutralizing all experiences about your ex in your mind. In doing so you will automatically make all your Ex pain insignificant or something that has no emotional effect on you.
Your emotion are caused by the interpretation of the memories you have in your mind, changing these memories will instantly change your feelings. So, let say you have just being dumped and you want to feel happy and want to find a new love, you basically…have to…replace bad memories of your ex first by neutralizing them…. then…you will have to create some new experiences in your mind which will create good emotions or feelings. These feelings will attract the things you want.
Now when I say…attract…you might think I’m kind of delusional here but let me explain. Let say you have created a happy feeling by looking at your old photos from high school.
Just by looking at those photos you will create/relive those good memories, which will make you feel happy. Since you have happy feeling your, self-esteem will increase, you will feel important and this will lead you to believe that you deserve something better.
Now let say at this time you go to the mall and happen to meet someone you like. Since you have a very high self-esteem, everything… and I mean everything… you do, will be very attractive, your body language, tone of voice, the way walk will be so attractive that the other person will not resist. Now do you see how easy for you to deal with being dumped?
One more thing you need to understand is this, over 95% of what we communicate is non-verbal, so when you create happy emotions in your mind, you communicate better with others… I mean about… who you are and how important person you are; there is no resistance to that.
That is what it means…by… attracting what you want.
In Forget your ex course we’ll show you how to change your interpretations to deal with being dumped in order to become a better person so that you can attract what you want..
You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..