I remember back in the days when I was little, my uncle, Peter used to tease me when he buys me a gift, he would hide a candy bar and tell me that “there is a gift for you somewhere, but you need to wait until I come back” I used to wait eagerly to get it. Yes, I was picturing different images on how sweet the candy bar would be like. All that happen because I was eager for something I didn’t have.
When you are eager about something you tend to wish, making unrealistic hope, you tend to build pictures of how things would be. Most of the time you are driven by emotions and you might end up making wrong decisions.
Break up is one of the biggest emotional driver, it take people away from where they are to the place they don’t want to be and it is at this time they…
Want to call the ex, which is the biggest mistake one can think of.
To get over someone you need to stop contacting him or her immediately. You see, when you break up with someone you give some part of you to them, its like you give your arm or leg or some of your organ. You end up feeling needy because you are attached to them.
Let me explain a bit… years a go when I was studying Physics….(Yes physics)…I learned that when you mix hot water and cold water, the mixture of that water would have a very different temperature from the former separate liquids (cold or hot water). This is not a big surprise as we always do this before we wash our hands by adjusting hot and cold water.
Our teacher explained to us that hot water transfers heat to cold water as a result the cold water’s temperature increases while the hot water’s temperature decreases. For the same reason when you put your finger in a hot pot you get burned because more heat is transferred to your finger than the other way round.
Just like heat in physics, break up is like transferring your emotion (feelings) to someone else, you end up feeling unhappy (cold) and your ex feels well (warm).
Now, when you call your ex (for any reason) you act like someone who just got burned on a hot stove, but still keeping his finger on it. Does it make sense?
Keep calling your ex will always make you feel less, you will always burn your emotion up. You will increase the rate at which your emotion is damaged. I know it might feel like things will be different….” maybe the ex will change his or her mind”… you might say…but… in most cases things will never be the same and the only way to do is to move on, that’s the best way to get over someone.
Now you might say how can I move on while I still remember him/her? Good question! I know you need to find a quick way to get over those bad memories. Once you have forgotten them you will be able to move on in your life.
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