I know a lot of people like to jump on this after break up simply because they can’t live alone. To some extent they are right because if you are used to be with someone for a while and have sex when you want or get help immediately when you need a ride (I mean a car) it is hard when you find yourself alone.
But here is the problem, before you jump back in to your old relationship, you must ask yourself why you broke up in the first place. Why did you say, that’s it! Why did you decide to let go?
There must a reason for that… remember even if you are alone it doesn’t mean life is over yet. It doesn’t mean you are done, you are just fine, you need to use this time to grow, to learn about your strength, power and things you really like to do.
This is the time to do those things your ex didn’t let you do. During break up you are charged with a lot of emotion, one of those emotions is the feeling of missing your ex. You just feel like you can’t leave without being in a relationship. That’s wrong.
You also run with emotions that make you feel self-conscious. What this means is that you tend to observe all the little bad things about you. We all have some of the things we don’t like about ourselves but during break up it’s like you have magnifying glass that point only to your flaws. That’s why you the feeling of not being in a relationship is bad that’s why you want to go back to your ex.
But deep down you know that you broke up because the relationship didn’t work. It is up to you to make a decision whether you want to go back but is much easier to get into a new relationship that trying to fix what’s has been broken.
You also have to get your self-esteem issues in the right order. This is because during break up you tend to have a lower self-esteem. If you can get this taken care of then you can go back to your ex. It is not okay to go back to your ex while you have low self esteem (you don’t respect yourself) because you will get hurt more in a relationship that when you are single you are more vulnerable when you are in relationship.
Think about it when you are in a relationship your partner knows all your secrets even those that you don’t tell your friends. Don’t you think is dangerous when you don’t have inner strength to go to a battle. Think about it.
Forget Your Ex Course will teach you how to get your inner strength back so that you can get into a relationship with power and strength..
Here is when Forget Your Ex Course comes in. You learn how to heal as quickly as possible…I mean in a short time… and you will be able to move on in your life. Do the things you like to do…feeling more powerful and loved. That is the only way to survive a break up, otherwise you will just be mourning all day long with your ex pain..